This tubal ligation thing
Naona some of these women wakiregret ( emphasis on some). Why? Remember this time transitioning to opposite gender was a thing? Then 6years later msee ni 20sth , 30 ama over 40yrs ana detransition, ama anasue parents, counselors na hospitali for misguiding them.... yeah, i smell something brewing.
Nasema hivi coz some of the reasons the ladies were saying ni... career, going against societal norms, not wanting kids at that time, challenging gender stereotypes and motherhood, financial reasons, etc
To be clear, i support child free lifestyle kabisaa. Lakini please, permanet procedures need you to be sure like 100%. Feelings change but this one doesn't. Also, kama umefika mwisho wa kuzaa, or ni painful conditions associated with uteral disorders/diseases, sawa get that procedure for your health coz it's a necessity.
For the rest wenye wako sawa, just be sure 10yrs in the future you wont be suing a hospital or blaming those around you for your choice.