BeamNG feels like it tries too hard at being realistic

For context, I drive a 2024 Tesla model 3 performance and a Porsche 911 in real life, frequently do canyon driving with both cars. Recently got into sim racing to scratch that itch to drive when I can’t go out driving.

As someone who really drives, this game just does not do a good job at simulating realistic driving at all. Taking a slight turn at 30 mph or randomly spinning out when going over 80mph and tapping the gas.

The way the cars handle twisties sucks, in real life - some of these turns I can easily be taking at X speed, but in BeamNG the cars just spin out even at low speeds. It feels like you’re driving a cheap SUV around corners that isnt built at all for them.